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2011-02-08 14-27-20

How is working in BDSM? I'm a straight female, and haven't really tried dominance/submission on my own time. But I now have a (possible) opportunity to work as a dominatrix. I think I'd be comfortable doing it if I felt like I was helping people uncover their own burried fantasies. But if it was more about keeping people trapped in unhealthy patterns, I don't think I'd like it. I'm also wondering about what a normal 'day of work' will feel like. Will it be emotionally draining? Any advice?
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2011-02-09 3-28-19-

There are some forum regulars here who can share their experiences as pro-dommes, but they're not here much on weekends. You might try posting again on Monday to see if you get more of a response. Just as an aside, if you haven't really experienced D/s in your own life, you may find that you don't understand the mindset well enough to be a hit at it right away. You'll probably need to understudy someone and do some research.
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    I found working in the sex industry (be honest with yourself, that's what working BDSM is) is quite taxing emotionally. It pays decently if you have a good client base, but considering that you don't have any experience with BDSM, I think you will find being a dominatrix much harder than you might think. Give it a try though, but don't be afraid to quit if you find it's not for you. As for keeping folks in bad patterns....I didn't find that to be the case with my clients, but you really won't know until you have been seeing them for a while and know more about their personal lives and issues.
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