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moyna

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2011-02-08 18-21-52

Dom training? I'm the designated dom in the relationship, since my wife is submissive. I don't really have a dom personality, but I've tried to assume the role as best I could, because I think I'd enjoy it. I've given her some kinky instructions lately, but she's never taken them seriously. I've always been goofy in the relationship, so this dom attitude from me is totally unexpected. I also suspect she's a little uncomfortable with being told what to do. Maybe I need to start smaller and work my way up to the kinky stuff? Any advice?
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2011-02-09 4-59-43-

now wait youre not a dom personality and your wife doesnt like being told what to do. so why are you playing dom and sub then? play something else. maybe video games or monopoly
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  • beshara

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    2011-02-10 11-44-33

    this is bad advice.... so are you saying that just because it doesn't come perfectly naturally to them they should just give up? Everyone needs to start somewhere. Growth and learning takes time.
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  • mcneese

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    2011-02-10 13-56-50

    so your advice to the wife is to suck it up? his wife is uncomfortable with it in his own words. your advice is for him to force his wife to play dom and sub when she doesnt like it? thats ed abuse
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  • lauffer

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    2011-02-11 5-04-54-

    um not that is not at all what I said. But they want to incorporate and D/s dynamic. It does not always come easily. Especially for couples who have been together in a "vanilla" relationship for many years. It is hard to break out of old habits. I am saying they need communication, time. patience, understanding and helpful resources like kinkfo. But just to say "tough luck go play monopoly" is not helping IMO
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    2011-02-11 10-51-07

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  • teaster

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    2011-02-11 14-03-26

    who are you quoting? no where in my statement did i say ""tough luck go play monopoly". i think you dont have much of a sense of humor.
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    karger

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    2011-02-11 15-20-26

    okey dokey... Im just putting in my 2 cents.
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  • tosh

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    2011-02-12 14-00-02

    wow. Seem awfully arrogant to come into a forum where you know nothing about anyone here and start to be so nasty. I was being friendly and helpful to you a few threads down but suddenly because my opinion differs from yours you choose to be rude.
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  • jonell

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    2011-02-15 2-39-07-

    because I disagree? Because you told him to give it up and play monopoly instead? IMO that IS bad advice. If he wanted to give up he would have done that. He would not have come here looking for ideas.
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  • camp

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    2011-03-06 4-49-11-

    you did it again you posted a quote i didnt say. thats the second time youve lied about my post. i didnt say "give it up". you said i gave bad advice and who are you to decide my advice is bad?
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  • minick

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    2011-04-02 9-51-09-

    oh my goodness.... its ed paraphrasing hunny not qouting. And who am I too deside it was bad advice? I am an intellegent woman with formed opinions of my own. And I was only speaking from my opinions. Becuase I didn't choose to add a stupid IMO disclaimer to my post doesn't really matter. It is only opinion in here. We are all just speaking from opinion and experiences. Thats what your gonna get here.
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    Beana

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    2011-08-19 18-08-58

    its ed lieing you didnt paraphrase. you lied. its ok for you to speak your opinion but when i speak my opinion its considered rude is this your argument? i dont think youre as smart as you think you are going by how you define the word paraphrasing.
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  • hwang

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    2011-11-10 2-47-20-

    heres a quote for you... "your advice is for him to force his wife to play dom and sub when she doesnt like it? thats ed abuse" Did I ever say anything even remotely close to that? Or were you lying? Or would you it paraphrasing? either way...it wasn't intended as an argument. I was discussing. Like I said it is what this DISCUSSION forum is for.
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    2011-12-19 21-00-07

    Come on you two drop it, it's not that big of a deal. This is a discussion forum, we don't all have to agreee do we?? would be awful boring if we did, talk about vanilla!!
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    graci

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    2012-02-17 23-59-53

    But your advice to them was to not "play dom and sub" but to play something else "maybe video games or monopoly". I actually interpreted what you said the same way kitty did. So I would say she paraphrased correctly. And either way, your tone is rude. Which is not exactly justified, as everyone is entitled to their opinion here. No need to be mean just because you disagree. :)
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    2012-11-11 11-39-40

    I agree.
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    2013-02-02 21-28-27

    oh I thought you would appreciate this.... paraphrase - express the same message in different words paraphrase - rewording for the purpose of clarification
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    Ok....You can pretend whatever you want. I find it unfortunate that you wanted to start a flame war over a differing of opinions. And now becuase your out of arguments you keep going back to the same "you mis-quoted me" thing. You will not be able to frequent and internet forum without disagreement. It was not intended to be a confrontation.
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