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Anderson

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2011-02-08 14-18-15

Good Afternoon Kinky People... I'm having a conflict.. I want to be totally submissive with my hubby. But we have had some issues throughout our relationship, although he WANTS to dominate me and be my master, his upbringing inhibits this. He feels guilty and battles with alot of feelings about "making" me do things. I hope that makes sense. So anyway here's my problem....I am ready for some kink tonight, and I want to be his slave. But he will never bring it up or start the roleplaying on his own. I find it conflicting and contradictory to initiate the scene on my own. Because thats supposed to be masters job. So any ideas how I can start without taking too much control right off the bat. I want to initiate while still submitting? Make sense? Any advice, suggestions or ideas are greating appreciated.
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You have to suggest things while empowering him to take control.
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2011-02-09 22-46-25

lol thanks teach but thats the obvious part. Im just not sure HOW to do that
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  • raxter

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    does he pick up on hints well? Like ask him for instructions on what to do when u get home
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    that sounds it might do...good dax
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    how can he turn you down..... that sucks
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    I dont know what it is... we have very different libidos :(
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  • Kaylee

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    2011-02-12 18-19-12

    You can always offer to help him get into the mood. Offer to service him.
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  • pleas

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    2011-02-13 21-24-56

    Then simply ask if Masters slaves presentaion Pleases him... What does Master desire of his slave?
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    Nathalia

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    2011-03-17 20-43-24

    I know this makes me sound so pathetic and wimpy. But how does deal with being rejected? If I presented myself to him like that and he said he wasn't into it. It would crush me. I don't know why I am so vulnerable about this thing. Maybe because it has ALWAYS been our struggle and I gave up initiating years ago. I don't know. Im sorry.
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  • francke

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    2011-07-10 2-44-03-

    No it does not.. Everyone has similiar fears. Some simply carry it better than others. Do you really think he would be so ous? You said he was into the idea but is having mental blocks, right? Maybe start slow.. Kneel while offering a drink or something. Ask if Master needs anything else..Work up to it a little? He is likely having confidence issues of his own..Need to build it up some?
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    2011-12-09 3-09-27-

    I think you're right gunnr maybe if I choose to just "take care" of him all evening it will lead there. And I will not have to put myself in such a vulnerable situation. Thank you so much :)
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    No problem Sweets:) Heh He might even like it;)
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    I know he'd love that. I love to bathe and pamper him. And he has had a rough week a work too so he'll appreciate it alot. And it removes the pressure for both of us.
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    Excellent:) Yeah I know it... :) Makes me all fuzzy when Master is happy.
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    Put a worm in an envelope and send it to him, through the mail. That will do it. Saw it on a movie. It should get you a good spanking, at least.
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    Hey that was my suggestion Daxy:) Oh well beat Me too it:)
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    i like the way you think gunnr....
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    Hee hee.. Yesday I will have to take my Mind for a good cleaning.. Eh why bother?..Just get dirty again:)
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    You can lay out a tray of items that you like or enjoy to have used on you. Be kneeling next to that tray naked and in a submissive position. Tell him anything you have done that day that makes you a bad girl and beg for his forgiveness for your transgretions. This should tell him what you want.
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