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2011-02-08 16-56-48

Men's wear for fetish events (sorry re-posting from last night but you guys might have more ideas) Partner and I want to start attending some fetish events, but don't have good ideas about what he should wear. He doesn't dress up much when we play. He's a *large* guy & we don't want him to look silly -- he's not really a leather harness kind of guy. Thoughts? Ideas? Thx.
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2011-02-09 10-01-17

In a word... black. Men's attire isn't the focus, women's is so nobody is really going to notice if he is wearing a designer shirt of not. Leather is great but no need to break the bank. Black jeans and a black t-shirt/buttin up shirt will do just fine. Nice black boots and belt help. Any cool jewelry will be appreciated but onlookers but the MO for men black at just about any and all fetish venues i have been to. Have fun... what does she plan on wearing?
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2011-02-10 6-37-20-

That usually means stuff like... no khakis and whites type of look. No runners, not even wall street suits are very welcome. But a man dressed in black from head to toe is pretty much universally eccepted as being appropriate dressed for a fetish event... and if he has you on his arm dressed in some of what you have described, you have nothing to worry about.
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    2011-02-10 21-37-00

    Great advice They do not want "casual" wear, if youi put some effort into it, there in no problem, and for a man, that usually means not standing out.
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    Ha ha... NN is right. No will be looking at him. ;) Sounds great.
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    2011-02-11 17-58-12

    Sometimes.... but often you can't tell them apart. Basic black pants and top doesn't really indicate that he Dom or sub. And even sometimes when i think it's sooo obvious, like a dude all strapped up in leather bands and buckles, with hooks and restraints as part of his gear (to me that looks subbie), I am often wrong. Just like a women... just because she's in corset, garter, fishnets and 4 inch heels that makes her tower over all the men is no indication that she is dominant. I find the only way to tell is behaviour of by asking. Or when they are crawling naked on all fours :P.
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    2011-02-12 1-00-43-

    i don't see men in suits as often as i'd like i think it'd be hot to be at the arm of a guy in something tailored, even if you're doing the black on black thing. a nice shirt. a monotone tie. and for the love of god some proper shoes.
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