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2011-02-08 16-50-04

a question for you all I'm a male, I've been married 25 years, and except for a couple brief moments when i seem to have lost my mind, I've been faithful. -- Well, sort of faithful; in fact, i have a wicked fantasy life that I wouldn't know how to begin sharing with my sweet, faithful, church-going very catholic wife. There are times, when I'd like to pin her down - restrain her - and force to experience orgasm after orgasm. (She is capable of an occasional orgasm, but she is sooo inhibited) There are times when I'd like to restrain her and force her to pleasure me. (she does give me great pleasure, but always so hurried). There are times, after a long week at work, driving a reluctant staff, that I'd like her to take control of me - use me, force me to have sex, to give her pleasure, to do anything where I don't have to make the desicions! ........ This, in all honesty, I think will never happen. Questions: how do I indulge my fantasies? Or, short of that, how do I deal with my frustrations (masturbating with my eyes closed is getting lonely) ..... ideas? I live in NY
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2011-02-09 4-27-29-

have you ever talked to her about this?
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    2011-02-09 10-23-55

    just do it
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    2011-02-10 5-04-02-

    excuse me? I don't know what idiotic gene pool you come from, but last time I checked, "just doing it" could mean rape. If you have no good advice to give, you should get your ass elsewhere.
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    2011-02-10 19-25-07

    Thank you cookster - Thank you cookster - you expressed quite clearly what I was thinking. It really does have to be consensual with both partners getting a lot out of it. You who have husbands and wives and other partners who are matched in your desire to express your sexuality with a little kink are pretty lucky it seems. There are more like me out there that like you.
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    2011-02-11 11-25-54

    yes yes, but was sort of shut down and made to feel guilty. Ugly. I just read the thread of NaughtyDaddy - seems like I am asking about the same thing. I think the advice was basiy - if she's not into it, just suck it up. Oh well.
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    2011-02-11 12-15-35

    what kind of approach did you have? Were you exposing and explaining to her this is what you want? Were you more inclusive of wha tshe wants? Have you asked her if she has any fantasies?
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    2011-02-11 23-57-13

    start with.. Start with a nice romantic yet erotic night with dinner a massage and maybe a little wine or champagne...then as you are massaging her and she becomes aroused throw out a few hints and say "I would love to tie you up and satisfy you all night" or something like that...make it erotic not just do it!
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    2011-02-12 18-16-41

    Not always. Just don't expect to get the moon when you're talking with her. Start with something small to work her to. Baby steps may be slow, but they can be better than nothing at all.
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    2011-02-16 3-40-18-

    if its your wife she will understand,christian women[in my experience have fantasies too].
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    2011-02-24 4-17-13-

    I am the wife :)
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    2011-03-17 4-33-20-

    You can't assume someone will understand something. You can explain it the best way possible, be kind in doing so, be patient, and hope for the best. But some people will never understand certain kinks. I'm certainly not hoping this is the case for the OP.
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    2011-07-07 22-13-52

    And understanding isn't the same as liking
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    2011-12-02 15-09-46

    Exactly. If she does understand it, there's no guarantee she'll ever like it!
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    2012-02-24 11-13-57

    you sure haven't been married, huh? And I guess that's why all those women you claim to have been with are fucking you, because their husbands are very understanding of their needs.... Oh and, way to use another blanket statement...
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    2012-11-17 3-24-56-

    i dated a christian woman,her mother and father were preachers,come x find out she liked x get fucked with popsicles,find out?what her fantasies are
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    2014-03-11 21-57-33

    what is it with you and generalizations...? you dated A christian woman. Did you date ALL christian women? No.
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    2015-09-22 22-56-56

    That's fascinating, but this thread is actually about the OP and his wife, and sounds like a different case.
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