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lepley

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2011-02-08 14-41-23

Real question..... Today, I found an empty journal at work....it was in of the many empty offices here in the building. I thought at first, "how fun...maybe i'll start writing in it." I've never kept a journal before...and wondered as I started to write,....how honest would I be in it? Meaning...if I write down how I TRULY feel about things, people, family and friends...and it were to leak out....it will cause harm in some cases..... SO.... My question is this: To those who do keep a journal, are you 100 percent honest with writing down every emotion you feel? Do you unleash your very inner thoughts? Do you find yourself sugar coating things you write for fear that someone may read? Curious really....I find myself not really wanting to write down my true inner feelings or thoughts for fear.
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2011-02-09 2-04-24-

I don't keep now, but I have at various points in my life. I wrote down what I was honestly feeling about things I had done, what I felt about what others had done, etc. It helped me a lot with being honest and diplomatic with others, as I realized there were many things in my own behavior I did not like either. It changed my heart to be a lot more understanding and accepting of the fraility of humans. When I was done, I burned them in the fireplace.
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Evona

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2011-02-09 19-10-37

I journal, I also live alone er... well there is my critter and she does not read so well... so I just let it rip. My fears, my hopes, my dreams, when I am pissed at somebody... all of it. I find it is very cleansing. It also gives you a good reference point, when I read thru last winter I think YIKES. (I was a bit off the rails). I also keep all sorts of things in it that mean something to me that would not mean anything to anyone else... a playing card I found walking along the highway, a note from a friend, a photo of my boat, a letter from my dead accountant... just stuff, but private stuff.
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2011-02-10 2-19-15-

I can't bring myself to do it I always want to write in a journal, but I had a traumatizing hood experience that scarred me for life. My sister found my journal when I was 9, read it, and showed it to my mother. I don't remember what was in it, but I know that some things I wrote were hurtful for my mother to read. I remember being ed into her bedroom and literally screamed at. She was sobbing and waving the diary around crying, "How could you write such vile, vile things about me?" I tried to explain that I had never meant for anyone to read that diary except for me. She told me that you should never put anything on paper that you wouldn't want the whole world to read. Thanks to her, I have a vicious case of writer's block. Haven't been able to keep a journal since.
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  • mcneese

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    2011-02-10 2-41-02-

    Some experiences are too painful to put on paper and yet many claim that to deal with such experiences you need to write them down, i have tried but whenever i read what i have written, the pain seems fresh!
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    2011-02-10 4-30-45-

    I write in one from time to time. I read back and see what was going on with me. It helps me process all the noise.
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    Adaline

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    2011-02-10 18-43-25

    I have written in journals from time to time but the most cleansing part of journaling was burning them all in my fireplace evening. Rip out 'special' pages and watch them go up in smoke! Purging! The only ones I haven't burned are the chronologies of my girls adoptions. Maybe we can burn them together someday.
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    bodenstein

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    2011-02-11 6-30-41-

    I write in journals all the time. I do live alone, well except for my fur balls and they have not learned to read. I don't know what I would do if I lived with some But for me a journal has been extremely helpful all through my life. Especially when I was in the convent. It really helped me clearly see thoughts. Now there has been so much change in my life and by writing I can see that there is good changes. Right now I am unemployed and journaling is helpful to keep my focus these days. I definately do not think it is right to read anyone elses journal. Truly an invasion.
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    kufahl

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    2011-02-11 15-25-10

    WHAT I WAS TOLD i have always been told if you dont want somebody to found out then dont write it or say it
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