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ortlieb

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2011-02-08 18-34-15

sex/manners question I warned y'all my brain is rambling around tonight! So there is this young woman at my work that's a lesbian. She's a good 20 years younger than me. Anyhow, she reminds me very much of my very first girl crush back when I was 13 or so. I am not crushing on the girl at work but I get such a kick out of her and I am very much taken back to those giddy days. I was thinking about telling her this just cause I think it would be fun to know and I would be touched if someone told me something like that. But because we are just work aquaintances I am concerned it might be awkward, though I really doubt it cause she's just all kinds of cool. Anyhow, any thoughts?
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2011-02-09 6-55-53-

I'd tell her. It just might take you from being work aquantances to being friends.
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2011-02-09 17-09-16

ty, I appreciate the input :)
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2011-02-09 18-22-08

I would be concerned what the work relationship is - Meaning are you in ANYWAY shape or form above her, if you are you may want to consider your wording very carefully, if you and her are equal, then you have much more latitude. I know you said you are acquaintances and I do not want to be a party pooper, but you might want to get to know her a little bit before saying anything that may be mis-construed. It sounds like she is fairly young so she may not know herself very well, so even if she knew she liked girls, but had never done anything about it, it might be kind of strange for her. I wish you the best of luck and I hope it goes well, just be careful.
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2011-02-09 22-21-50

she's a peer, not a subordiante and she is fully out, engaged to her girlfriend of 3 years. I know that honesty, no matter how well intended, can be startling at best.
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  • swinson

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    2011-02-09 22-43-04

    Oh then have fun with it. But yes hearing that someone likes you, when you are not looking for that specific someone to like you can be a little surprising. There is a lady at work I have a huge crush up, I would never go up to her and say "Wow you are hot" cuz there would be no place for her to put that information. But we had our Christmas.....Ere....Holiday potluck this week, we had all already eat'n but the lady I have a crush on was working on something so showed up late and all the seats were taken, so I gave her mine. Which worked out really good because it put me next to the desserts. I think it would be really cool if you were able to find the right words to say to her, I hope you get the chance and if you do let us know how it goes.
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    2011-02-10 14-05-25

    Honesty is the best policy. Go for it, I say. But wait for the right time and place, and be aware of your employer policy on sexual harassment. comment is no big deal, but comments can get you fired without an investigation. Good luck. Spread & the love.
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  • morita

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    2011-02-11 6-49-19-

    How well do you know her? I guess that is really what it comes down to. If she's cool like that, even if you weren't her cup of tea and she took it as a compliment you'll be fine. But what if she's of THOSE people? You might find yourself out of a job is she goes to HR. You have to be careful at the workplace these days.
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