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szafran

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2011-02-08 19-56-30

I used to think that I needed to drink to be gay I came out in the bars and alcohol literally helped me feel gay, think gay, love gay...the whole shebang. I didn't know that I was just a scared and shy alcoholic as gay as one could be...time takes time and had I killed myself amidst all my drunken bulimic depression and living in the closet until my early 20s, I would have DEFINITELY killed the wrong person!! I just wanted to share with my friends my today...today, 10-14-2010, is 26 years sober in Alcoholics Anonymous! :P Gay, proud and sober!! Still shy but that I can live with! ♥♥
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silvia

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2011-02-09 18-20-52

That is Awesome!! and definitely something of which you should be proud.
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  • koehn

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    2011-02-09 23-31-58

    keep coming back!!! CONGRADTULATIONS!!!!!!! SUPER COOL!!!! It works if you work it, and you are totally worth it!! I totally know what you mean about the drink and the gay scene. I just shared about this, on sunday, that I can't believe how long and how much i drank, to feel power, to feel a sense of fitting in, since, i felt so out of touch and awkward all the time....that the drink made me feel that all was well. today, I know the truth, and have a solution! Ty! and Ty SoberGal....... ;-)
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    martinec

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    2011-02-10 4-18-44-

    Life of the party? That wasn't me :( Nope...I was the one who would go up to you, stumbling drunk and slurring my words, and trying to muster a semblance of hip, slick and coolness, blurt out, "you ever think about dying?", "what is the meaning of life?", "is there a god?" Yeah, I certainly wasn't the life of the party!!
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    rosebrough

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    2011-02-10 8-38-57-

    Fear, ran my life! and in the end i got that way. sluring my words, not sure how i got home, I had know idea what a "blackout," was... I was the ring leader, and if you didn't drink like i did, I'd leave ya.....or find someone who did drink like i did. (i did)did..lol..... or I'd buy you a drink so you'd like me. or i'd hussel a drink out of you.. but the drink was so much more. It did so much more, so i thought; in the end i didn't even go out; no food, no friends, no nothing. ("you," being a generalized word.) how twisted!!! what a waste! now, the light is bright, life is awesome, i'm going back to school, dating, living life!!! i'm not scared anymore!!!!!!!! thats the best part. I'm not afraid!!!!!
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  • burri

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    2011-02-10 9-44-28-

    Congratulations! Here's a toast for you!
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    2011-02-10 16-20-06

    Congrats to you sobergal
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  • dromgoole

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    2011-02-11 8-53-26-

    congrats 28 years is amazing! Great work. Thanks for sharing.
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    finerty

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    2011-02-11 21-05-43

    Congrats! Happy birthday (new life and all)!
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    zilch

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    2011-02-12 6-17-48-

    And congrats!
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