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marting

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2011-02-08 19-02-55

Since it has been said today that we've been "lacking" in philosophical topics lately, how about one? I was wondering today if love is an immensely personal thing (i.e. everyone has their own definition) or if there is something that everyone can say "oh yeah that's definitely love". So are there certain characteristics that define love for you? Has your definition/expectations of love changed as you've gotten older/more worldly? If you've had more than one serious love, did you love each person the same, or was it a different type of love?
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2011-02-09 4-24-12-

lurve... I think love is on a more personal level. Everyone's ideas about love and what it means what it looks like tastes like feels like, is completely unique to even just a relationship with one person or another. I think love is defined to me when I look into someone's eyes and in that moment in my bipolar chaotic animal filled world, I am at peace with myself and my life, and nothing can break my hold on that moment until I avert my eyes... Each person I have loved has been slightly different. Each person helped me learn new things and grow as a person as well.
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  • rempfer

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    2011-02-09 19-07-21

    Love.... Crap movie, but what the bartender says about love stuck in my head.
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  • dushane

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    2011-02-10 4-43-08-

    O yaz, many kinds of lurv. What I've got for my GF is love. It's the reason people do crazy stuff like get married and give presents and celebrate the day they met. I was married to my best (guy) friend for years and while there wasn't ever passion, I know I loved/love him too. Like a sister. As I've gotten older I don't confuse lust or sex with love. And I don't confuse friendship with romantic love. When I was younger, I believed in friendship, but didn't believe in love (I got less cynical as I aged?). But it turned out that marriage doesn't work like it is supposed to without the right kind of love. A financial agreement based on friendship and shared goals isn't what marriage is about in this century. I love my too, with a big mom love. And my friends with a friend love. A long time ago I thought that I would understand life by being in love. I don't expect love to bring me understanding any more. I don't expect anything of it.
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  • janemandy

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    2011-02-10 9-37-53-

    I feel it's only fair to share... (after some serious thought) what I would answer. I don't think that love is something that can have one definitive description. We're all very different people and what may make one of us ga-ga over someone might very well make someone else shudder. Something I figured out very quickly was that love is most definitely not all about wine and roses. Neither is it about debating/arguing about everything. I don't know that I have a checklist of things to look for before I say that I love someone; I just *know* when I have it. So, my expectations have definitely changed as I've gotten older. I did like something in the 67069 link that doc posted about the "big love/great love" thing. That describes, for me anyways, some of the differences between the people I've loved. I've always felt there were distinct differences in how I felt versus what words I had to describe it in. (Not necessarily in depth of feeling, but something different about how I loved each person.) Unfortunately, the English language only has one word for romantic affection.
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