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Gilles

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2011-02-08 15-08-37

for all those new posters I 19793ged about is provided by our friendly fo attendant. (She wears a cute uniform.) The fo attendant welcomes you: What this is: an international online discussion forum for queer women. What this isn't: IM, a chat room, a pick-up spot, a place for personal ads, or the bi forum. (If your issues are strictly bisexuality, or about your own "bi-curiosity," try the bi forum.) ------- here's how it works: First, click "all" at the top of the page. That lets you see what most of us see, which are posts from all over tarnation, not just your hometown. You'll see several conversations, or "threads," in progress. Click on a line to read the body of text. If you want to reply to that post, click "reply to post," and once completed your reply will appear under the post three dots to the right. When you click "compose new thread" you're "top-posting," which is only done to begin a new topic of conversation. You're most welcome to participate in the conversations already in progress - a good way to get started. The little red or green numbers you sometimes see beside a post are ratings. Ratings are a way for forum folk to indicate their agreement or disagreement with a post without actually posting a response. There's a little "rate" link at the top of the right hand window. Many people only check in for a few minutes a day - and sometimes threads stretch out for days - so it's very different from chat or IM, although sometimes things do get fast & furious in here. We talk about pretty much everything. And tangents are common - but outright thread hijacking is considered rude. It's a pretty varied group in here. Sometimes we get "trolls," baiters, and people cruising for a threesome, and often that brings out the creativity of the regulars - or a flock of dragonflies
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2011-02-10 12-48-44

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2011-02-10 16-22-19

too much irony She being so anything-but-clueless. Hey that's a good one: 'anythingbut' And where can I get those injections?!! (that /would/ be clueless)
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    2011-02-11 21-08-07

    FD said as a member of madfemmepride I could not be clueless anymore and I should get a new handle. She must be right.
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  • adamski

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    2011-02-11 23-39-55

    did I not get the memo? is this come in under a different handle day? *so confused* wtf? :)
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    2011-02-12 18-06-42

    a thought I am probably of the most blunt people some know, however, I never understood the point of posting these "fo attendant" guidelines/rules/pointers. What happened to sticking around and finding out for yourself? So many of these new posters never come back anyway. Why bother posting such a bulletin?
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    2011-02-27 2-43-50-

    It's just shorthand to answer the questions that all new posters seem to ask. Like "How does this work?" and "What are those little red numbers?" I agree, it might be overkill - and it would be nice if people would hang out and get a feel, but many do not.
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    balazs

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    2011-03-17 2-05-05-

    it's also evolved over the last year from the feedback of regs & newbies alike. I like that we have something to present that rose out of the group. It takes a second to post and provides a new poster with everything they need to know. I think it's better than ignoring them or making fun of them.
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    justesen

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    2011-04-12 9-44-33-

    I don't think it's a choice between posting the fo attendant speech or mocking someone/ignoring them. And for someone like me who has a short attention span, the post is very long.
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    2011-08-29 20-16-07

    But the point is if you really WANT to figure out this forum and hang out, you'll read it. I did. I think it's the rules that AREN'T stated on the attendant that are harder to figure out...but again if you stick around long enough...you learn. Trial and error.
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    2012-02-22 22-18-26

    a personal sticking point Ok, I finally read the entire thing. The point of the forum not being a place for people who don't know if she (or he) is gay... The whole reason I first posted here was because I didn't know! If I stopped posting after reading that, things would be very different for me right now.
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    2012-03-06 2-56-16-

    That's how it got to be so long, dykey consensus process, and mpts to cover many people's personal points. It's a good you raise. How would you word it, if you were re-wording it?
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  • cales

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    2012-11-19 12-14-04

    Re-wording, editing, rephrasing? same thing. I'm against having any such post/bulletin and frankly, I disagree with some of things that happen here, e.g. the whole point system is ridiculous, mocking someone who has an honest question is baffling. me crazy, and yes, I am, but if someone posts something awful, stupid, wrong, etc. I don't respond if I feel the person is not worth it. If someone is a person I don't want to have a conversation with, I choose to ignore them. No post can speak for the "majority." The majority is constantly changing as posters stop, start, or continue posting here.
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  • boris

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    2012-12-05 17-52-20

    As you say, everyone's different. Some people see value in such a post (and they're the people who post it). Some don't, and they don't.
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  • rodrigeuz

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    2013-06-08 16-08-46

    I'm in agreement with this The forum - by definition (a public meeting place for open discussion or voicing of ideas) - is just that. Who is to know what other people read/don't read, or what is useful/not useful to each individual person? Having the "fo attendant" post - along with others who prefer to say "Welcome" or give their own 'fair warnings': "Don't LOL or beware GAYWAD's wrath" or whatever - gives an array of voices. Certain things speak to certain people. If it's not said, it can't be heard. It'sline of text on a page. Why not post it? It may help some people. If it doesn't, so be it. In my mind, the "fo attendant" is simply another form of expression. Like all else, take it or leave it.
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    Uppy, I agree with the majority of the statements in your last post. What I like about the "fo attendant" post is that using it does help to maintain a more inviting atmosphere. Someforums are "unattended" - have you taken a peek at the ettiquette forum, for example? Kinda like an urban parkette (hate that word), the folks who want to use it have to show they care about it otherwise it becomes decrepit, unsafe and eventually few will want to venture into it.
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    I don't think we really compare to the ettiquette fo, the parenting fo, the pets fo etc. Even without the fo attendant, I seriously doubt this place will degenerate into a place nois interested in joining. We have enough good conversation and clever regs to ensure that.
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